Tag: Attachment

• Letter To A “Friend” – Living With BPD

  I wrote this to a friend a while ago in a moment of anger, but never gave it to her. I thought I’d share it here, but add something more positive at the end. Dear “friend” You think you know me. But you only see what you want to see. You only see what I allow […]

  Rayne

  July 9, 2016

  Borderline Personality Disorder

  Attachment, Black & White Thinking, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Compassion, Dissociation, Emptiness, Frustration, Hope, Hopelessness, Intuition, Letter, Life, Mental Health, Obsessive Attachments, Relationships, Resilience, Self Harm, Strength, Suicidal Ideation

• Living Black & White

  Woke up this morning and got started on my day, thinking I’d enjoy my day off work. I didn’t have any plans besides reading and catching up on the blogs I follow religiously, and get some needed study time in. I did that a little bit (except for the studying part), but couldn’t help noticing […]

  Rayne

  June 27, 2016

  Borderline Personality Disorder

  Attachment, Awareness, Behaviour, Black & White Thinking, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Connection, Depression, Emptiness, Mental Health, Numb, Psychologist, Splitting, Suicidal Ideation, Therapist, Therapy

• The Dream And A Missing Psychologist

  I find dreams fascinating. Even nightmares. Growing up, I had a few recurrent dreams. They have stuck with me through the years, and every once in a while (very rarely at least) I have one of them again. I’ll write about each one sometime. Now, I have a new dream. I’ve had it only once […]

  Rayne

  April 28, 2016

  Dreams

  Abandonment, Anxiety, Attachment, Awareness, Borderline Personality Disorder, Dreams, Fear, Fear Of Abandonment, Frustration, Loneliness, Mental Health, Nightmares, Obsessive Attachments, Psychologist, Rejection, Relationships, The Therapeutic Relationship, Therapist, Therapy

• The Highs & Lows of the Therapeutic Relationship

  I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while, but have tried to put it off. It feels like I’ll be walking out into the street naked. But I have read similar posts by a couple of other people, which was a great help and comfort to me. And since this is part of my […]

  Rayne

  April 17, 2016

  Therapy

  Abandonment, Anxiety, Attachment, Borderline Personality Disorder, Boundaries, Communication, Depression, Frustration, Healing, Love, Mental Health, Motivations, Obsessive Attachments, Protective, Psychologist, Psychology, Relationships, The Therapeutic Relationship, Therapist, Therapy, Transference