Tag: Letting Go

• It Just Is.

  I’ve reached a point where I just can’t fight anymore. With anyone in my head or against anything. I don’t have the strength for that anymore. It’s also just a waste of time. Decided that I need to let go of a friend who keeps hurting me and did something behind my back that felt […]

  Rayne

  March 28, 2021

  Life

  Daydreaming, Letting Go, Mental Health, Relationships, Therapy

• It Didn’t Work: Attachment Styles

  Over the past couple of years of learning about boundaries, I’ve learned that I can choose who and what I allow in my life. It’s been a liberating lesson, but also a difficult and sometimes heartbreaking one. Since Elizabeth and I broke up a few months ago, I’ve often wondered whether a friendship would work […]

  Rayne

  June 30, 2018

  Relationships

  Acceptance, Attachment, Boundaries, Letting Go, Relationships

• It’s Enough

  I’m done reaching out. There’s really no point, and I see that clearly now. I’m done being certain people’s emotional punching bag. I’m done putting myself out there. At the end of the day, I’m alone. And that’s okay.

  Rayne

  April 29, 2018

  Life

  Emptiness, Letting Go, Relationships

• Protected: Not Going To Happen This Year Either

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  Rayne

  January 21, 2018

  Life

  Acceptance, Determination, Growth, Letting Go, Psychology, Studies

• Feeling The Grief

  I’ve never liked that word. Grief. Even as I’m typing it out, I’m cringing inside. But as a friend recently told me, words are just that. Words. The morning after having written my post ‘Basking in the Sun‘, I woke up with this feeling of intense sadness. It’s followed me through the entire week, and […]

  Rayne

  September 25, 2016

  Life

  Attachment, Awareness, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Broken, Change, Connection, Depersonalization, Depression, Derealization, Despair, Emptiness, Feeling Lost, Fragile, Friendship, Goodbye’s, Grief, Guilt, Happiness, Hopelessness, Hurt, Letting Go, Loss, Memories, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Missing Someone, Music, Overwhelmed, Relationships, Sadness, Struggle, The Future, The Past, Toxic Relationships, Vulnerability

• The Last Song I’m Wasting On You

  I’ll always love you. But right now I need to hate you. The power I allowed you to have over me, I’ve taken it back. No longer will you be able to tell me how to act. How to be. No longer will I be anxious when going out with people and have your disapproving […]

  Rayne

  August 9, 2016

  Relationships

  Anger, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Depression, Disconnection, Emotional Abuse, Goodbye’s, Hurt, Letter, Letting Go, Memories, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Music