Tag: Object Constancy

• “She’s Gone Forever”

  My therapist went on leave for two weeks. I knew about this for two weeks before her break, and during that time, I didn’t think much about it. More importantly, I didn’t know how I felt about it. Like I told her in our session two weeks ago, I’m happy that she’s making time for…

  Rayne

  June 29, 2017

  Borderline Personality Disorder

  Attachment, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Depression, Fear Of Abandonment, Inner Child, Insecurity, Object Constancy, Sadness, Therapist

• It’s The Connection

  For the past two weeks, I’ve been so fixated on the thought of not being able to afford to have therapy sessions, that I failed to see what’s been right in front of me this entire time. I was reading through some of my posts on being afraid of losing connection with my therapist, and…

  Rayne

  March 23, 2017

  Relationships, Therapy

  Attachment, Bond, Borderline Personality Disorder, Communication, Connection, DBT, Healing, Inner Child, Object Constancy, Occupational Therapist

• Protected: The Little One’s Letter To Therapist

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  Rayne

  March 21, 2017

  Relationships, Therapy

  Attachment, Connection, Depression, Fear, Fear Of Abandonment, Inner Child, Letter, Object Constancy, Occupational Therapist, Reflection, The Therapeutic Relationship, Therapist, Therapy

• Attachment: Here We Go Again

  I’ve gone and done it again. I got attached to someone else. My psychiatrist. When I first met her, that Friday that I booked myself into the clinic, I can’t remember most of our interaction. I saw her four more times after that, and didn’t know what to make of her. So there wasn’t an…

  Rayne

  February 22, 2017

  Borderline Personality Disorder, Relationships

  Abandonment, Attachment, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Connection, Fear Of Abandonment, Fragile, Idealization, Inner Child, Kindness, Little One, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Object Constancy, Psychiatric Clinic, Psychiatrist, Relationships, Sadness, Vulnerability

• Taking Responsibility For My Own Insecurites

  There are times where I find myself feeling insecure about the smallest things. Only, these things aren’t so small to me in the moment. During these times, I see them as something that threatens my very happiness, sanity and survival. For example, if someone doesn’t respond the right way to a text or email. Often…

  Rayne

  December 20, 2016

  Borderline Personality Disorder

  Behaviour, Black & White Thinking, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Emotional Dysregulation, Emotions, Fear, Fear Of Abandonment, Insecurity, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Object Constancy, Panic, Reflection, Relationships, Sensitivity, Skills, Thoughts

• Protected: Already Missing Her

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  Rayne

  December 7, 2016

  Therapy

  Abandonment, Anxiety, Attachment, Bond, Borderline Personality Disorder, Boundaries, BPD, Connection, Depression, Despair, Fear, Fear Of Abandonment, Fragile, Goodbye’s, Hurt, Idealization, Life, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Missing Someone, Nightmares, Object Constancy, Obsessive Attachments, Psychologist, Relationships, Sadness, Skills, The Therapeutic Relationship, Therapist, Therapy, Therapy Break, Trust