Tag: Object Constancy

• Insecurity, Hot On The Heels Of Vulnerability

  Therapy is hard sometimes. And yesterdays session was one of those. I’m always open during my sessions, and trust my therapist with things I can’t ever speak to anyone else about. She holds my secrets. But this one was particularly difficult for me. For some reason it felt like I was more exposed than ever […]

  Rayne

  August 23, 2016

  Therapy

  Anger, Anxiety, Attachment, Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD, Comfort, Connection, Devaluation, Disconnection, Embarrassment, Fear Of Abandonment, Fragile, Hurt, Idealization, Insecurity, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Object Constancy, Obsessive Attachments, Panic, Panic Attack, Psychologist, Relationships, Sensitivity, Shame, Stress, The Past, The Therapeutic Relationship, Therapist, Vulnerability, Walls

• BPD & Attachment

  Those of us with BPD have unstable patterns in relationships. Until I started therapy, this fact didn’t even appear on my radar. I was living it, but not consciously aware of these patterns. It was only when I started therapy that it was brought to my awareness. I see it play out in my relationship […]

  Rayne

  July 27, 2016

  Borderline Personality Disorder

  Abandonment, Anger, Anxiety, Attachment, Awareness, Black & White Thinking, Borderline Personality Disorder, Boundaries, BPD, Connection, Devaluation, Emptiness, Fear Of Abandonment, Feeling Lost, Frustration, Hurt, Idealization, Letter, Mental Health, Music, Object Constancy, Obsessive Attachments, Psychologist, Rejection, Relationships, Splitting, The Therapeutic Relationship, Therapist, Therapy